Engaged http://www.twoofus.org Latest articles from the Engaged section Consider Expectations Before Marriagehttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/consider-expectations-before-marriage/index.aspxBefore heading to the altar, be sure you have a clear understanding of each other's expectations.4/6/2011 2:04 PMBefore You Say I Dohttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/before-you-say-i-do/index.aspxLearn the right questions to consider and be discussed with your partner before you commit to marriage. 3/30/2011 3:01 PMLove Quiz and Relationship Testhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/quiz/love-quiz-and-relationship-test/index.aspxAnswering the quiz questions helps to determine the characteristics of your relationship.12/3/2010 4:33 PMStress Management Current Trends - Guided Imageryhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/stress-management-current-trends-guided-imagery/index.aspxGuided imagery is a gentle but powerful technique that focuses and directs the imagination. 4/4/2011 11:53 AMEmotional Cheatinghttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/emotional-cheating/index.aspxLearn the damaging effects of emotional cheating and how to recognize the signs of it in a relationship. 1/16/2012 2:49 PMCompatibility Quizhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/quiz/compatibility-quiz/index.aspxTake this quiz to let you know how your personalities may complement each other, or clash.12/3/2010 4:31 PMTen Important Research Findings on Marriage and Choosing a Marriage Partner: Helpful Facts for Young Adultshttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/ten-important-research-findings-on-marriage-and-choosing-a-marriage-partner-helpful-facts-for-young-/index.aspxTen findings that will help in choosing your future mate and having a successful marriage. 4/4/2011 11:00 AMListening is Not a Spectator Sport - Rules for Active Listeninghttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/listening-is-not-a-spectator-sport-rules-for-active-listening/index.aspxLearn how listening, though a silent act, is still an active part of communication.12/9/2010 12:38 PMAvoiding Communication Foulshttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/avoiding-communication-fouls/index.aspxLearn how communication fouls become about winning an argument instead of finding a mutually favorable resolution.12/17/2010 5:06 PMA Game Plan for Effective Communicationhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/a-game-plan-for-effective-communication/index.aspxLearn effective communication skills that help couples navigate through difficult topics.12/17/2010 5:07 PM10 Things You Can Do To Romance Your Partner on a Budgethttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/10-things-you-can-do-to-romance-your-partner-on-a-budget/index.aspxPractical, budget-friendly tips for couples wanting to reignite their romance.12/17/2010 5:00 PMPreparing for Remarriagehttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/preparing-for-remarriage/index.aspxLearn about improving the health of your future marital relationship by laying the groundwork for a firm foundation.12/14/2010 1:43 PMGetting Your Marriage off to a Great Starthttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/getting-your-marriage-off-to-a-great-start/index.aspxLearn wise choices that will help to ensure a successful marriage. 12/8/2010 10:26 AM10 Things You Can Do To Have A Healthy Marriagehttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/10-things-you-can-do-to-have-a-healthy-marriage/index.aspxTen tips you can use to strengthen your marriage. 12/17/2010 5:08 PMHealthy and Satisfying Intimate Relationshipshttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/healthy-and-satisfying-intimate-relationships/index.aspxAll of us want to have happy and intimate relationships.12/9/2010 3:06 PMStart Soft When You Want To Be Heardhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/start-soft-when-you-want-to-be-heard/index.aspxLearn how starting softly will increase the chances of resolving the problem and finding a mutual solution.12/8/2010 11:49 AMLearning Languages of Love in Marriagehttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/learning-languages-of-love-in-marriage/index.aspxLearn how to customize our messages of love to fit our partner's preferences.2/7/2012 4:04 PMQualities of a Healthy Relationshiphttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/qualities-of-a-healthy-relationship/index.aspxLearn to recognize the qualities of a healthy relationship. 12/17/2010 5:03 PMHow to Combine Your Lives Without Losing Your Identityhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/how-to-combine-your-lives-without-losing-your-identity/index.aspxTwo of the greatest benefits of a healthy relationship are sharing your interests with someone and learning new things. 12/9/2010 2:58 PMHow to Survive the Weddinghttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/how-to-survive-the-wedding/index.aspxPlanning---and surviving---a wedding may be the first in a long line of tests a couple faces in their relationship. 10/27/2011 5:05 PMYour Relationship: Healthy or Unhealthy?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/your-relationship-healthy-or-unhealthy/index.aspxWhen you think about your current relationship, how do you feel? Do you remember good times together and dream about your future? 12/17/2010 4:57 PMHow to argue correctlyhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/how-to-argue-correctly/index.aspxThis video highlights some techniques that couples can utilize to communicate and argue more effectively.12/17/2010 2:45 PMEmotional Mastery: The Secret to Incredible Relatinghttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/podcast/emotional-master-the-secret-to-incredible-relating/index.aspxThis audio file explains how to become the master of your emotions and how emotional mastery enhances relationships.12/14/2010 10:05 AMOvercoming the Core Beliefs that Cause Relationship Failureshttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/podcast/overcoming-the-core-beliefs-that-cause-relationship-failures/index.aspxLearn how your subconscious beliefs can cause your relationships to fail. 12/14/2010 10:11 AMAddressing Relationship Energy Drainershttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/podcast/addressing-relationship-energy-drainers/index.aspxThis lesson will teach you to recognize immediately when your energy is being drained and what you can do about it.12/14/2010 9:55 AMAre We Compatible?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/podcast/are-we-compatible/index.aspxThis podcast explains how your individual personality effects your relationships.12/14/2010 10:00 AMDealing With Our Baggagehttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/podcast/dealing-with-our-baggage/index.aspxLearn how your past can help you determine today’s vision, purpose, needs, and wants for your relationship. 12/14/2010 10:02 AMFighting in a Way That's Fairhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/fighting-in-a-way-thats-fair/index.aspxAll relationships encounter disagreements. It’s how those disagreements are handled that is the key to the health of the relationship.6/20/2011 2:24 PM50 "Quick Connects" for Coupleshttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/50-quick-connects-for-couples/index.aspxSmall emotional connections between partners can add up to big time relationship satisfaction.12/17/2010 5:04 PMGet Connected - Turn Toward Your Partner to Create Intimacyhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/get-connected-turn-toward-your-partner-to-create-intimacy/index.aspxLearn how connecting is important to the overall health of a relationship.4/4/2011 11:22 AMFederally Funded Ad Campaign Holds Up Value of Marriagehttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/federally-funded-ad-campaign-holds-up-value-of-marriage/index.aspxRead about how the federal government is funding a national media campaign focused on healthy relationships and marriage and the research that supports it.12/9/2010 12:32 PMHow to Ride Out the Storm and Recession-Proof Your Relationshiphttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/how-to-ride-out-the-storm-and-recession-proof-your-relationship/index.aspxRead about three ways to protect your love and your money during these stressful economic times.3/30/2011 2:34 PMCreating a Plan B in case of job losshttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/creating-a-plan-b-in-case-of-job-loss/index.aspxIn this video, Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott give advice on surviving a career crisis.12/10/2010 12:19 PMSocking money away for a rainy dayhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/socking-money-away-for-a-rainy-day/index.aspxThis video talks about different ways in which couples can work together to save money.12/17/2010 3:27 PMBudgeting together: Where to starthttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/budgeting-together-where-to-start/index.aspxIn this video, Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott talk about how couples can work together to effectively budget their finances.12/10/2010 12:25 PMLove Ruleshttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/love-rules/index.aspxHere is what relationships experts think about the tried, but not always true, love sayings.3/30/2011 3:28 PMHelp for Money Argumentshttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/help-for-money-arguments/index.aspxLearn how to work as a team to tackle stressful financial situations.12/8/2010 10:29 AMAre Your Money Styles Compatible?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/are-your-money-styles-compatible/index.aspxLearn how to effectively communicate about money and finances when you and your partner may come from different financial backgrounds.12/9/2010 10:08 AMStrategies for Couples Dealing With Financial Strainhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/strategies-for-couples-dealing-with-financial-strain/index.aspxLearn several effective strategies for dealing with financial strain as a couple.12/15/2010 10:32 AMHow Stress Affects a Relationshiphttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/how-stress-affects-a-relationship/index.aspxIt is important to understand how stressful events can affect your marriage or relationship.4/23/2012 10:57 AMMarriage Education vs. Counseling: How Do We Know Which is Right for Us?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/marriage-education-vs-counseling-how-do-we-know-which-is-right-for-us/index.aspxLearn whether marriage education classes or counseling is a better option for you and your partner.12/14/2010 11:44 AMFirst Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage ... Right? How Do We Know if We're Ready?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/first-comes-love-then-comes-marriage-right-how-do-we-know-if-were-ready/index.aspxAlthough no one can tell you if you’re ready to get married, there are three important things to think about that can help you make this important decision.9/27/2011 4:23 PMLive Chathttp://www.twoofus.org/live-chat/index.aspx12/10/2010 9:54 AMHow can I tell if my partner is really committed to me?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/how-can-i-tell-if-my-partner-is-really-committed-to-me/index.aspxIn this video, Dr. Scott Stanley talks about how you can tell if your partner is really committed to you.4/4/2011 1:31 PMCan watching porn hurt my relationship?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/can-watching-porn-hurt-my-relationship/index.aspxIn this video, Drs. Mark and Debbie Laaser discuss the effects that watching porn can have on your relationship.1/24/2011 11:56 AMWhat should I do if I've been unfaithful?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/what-should-i-do-if-ive-been-unfaithful/index.aspxIn this video, David Carder talks about what you should do if you've been unfaithful in your relationship.12/17/2010 4:05 PMEmotional cheating: What is it and how do I avoid it?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/emotional-cheating-what-is-it-and-how-do-i-avoid-it/index.aspxIn this video David Carder, MA identifies what emotional cheating is and how you can avoid it in your relationship.12/7/2010 10:01 AMHow do I learn to trust my partner again after he/she has cheated?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/how-do-i-learn-to-trust-my-partner-again-after-heshe-has-cheated/index.aspxIn this video, David Carder, MA discusses ways you can learn to trust your partner after he/she has cheated.12/17/2010 2:08 PMMy partner's substance abuse is affecting our relationship. What do I do?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/my-partners-substance-abuse-is-affecting-our-relationship-what-do-i-do/index.aspxIn this video, Drs. Mark and Debbie Laaser discuss the implications that substance abuse and addictions can have on relationships.12/17/2010 3:14 PMWhat can we do to rekindle the passion in our relationship?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/what-can-we-do-to-rekindle-the-passion-in-our-relationship/index.aspxIn this video, Dr. Mark and Debbie Laaser give advice on how to rekindle the passion in your relationship.12/17/2010 3:58 PMIf we live together, why complicate things with marriage? Part 1http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/if-we-live-together-why-complicate-things-with-marriage/index.aspxIn this video, Galena Rhoades discusses living together and the benefits of marriage.12/21/2010 1:25 PMIsn't living together a normal step on the path to marriage? Part 1http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/isnt-living-together-a-normal-step-on-the-path-to-marriage/index.aspxIn this video, Dr. John Curtis talks about where living together fits in the path toward marriage.12/21/2010 1:52 PMWhen are we ready to take the next step toward marriage?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/when-are-we-ready-to-take-the-next-step-toward-marriage/index.aspxIn this video, Dr. Galena Rhoades gives advice on recognizing when you're ready to take the next step toward marriage.12/17/2010 4:09 PMWhat do we need to know if we're engaged?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/what-do-we-need-to-know-if-were-engaged/index.aspxIn this video, Hedy Schleifer talks about what engaged couples need to know.12/2/2010 2:54 PMHow can we start our own traditions as a couple?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/how-can-we-start-our-own-traditions-as-a-couple/index.aspxIn this video, Dr. Rozario Slack discusses how you can begin your own traditions as a couple.12/17/2010 1:53 PMSnuggle-With-Your-Honey Holiday Movieshttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/snuggle-with-your-honey-holiday-movies/index.aspxTake a break from the holiday madness and put on one of these festive movies!12/15/2010 9:59 AMMeet Me at the Mistletoe: Holiday Date Ideashttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/meet-me-at-the-mistletoe-holiday-date-ideas/index.aspxWhether you’re casually dating, or have been married for years, here are some date activities that are sure to be memorable!12/14/2010 12:06 PMSurviving Holidays With the Familyhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/surviving-holidays-with-the-family/index.aspxTake the time to reset the holiday expectations meter for yourself and your significant other with these tips to manage your way to a happier holiday.12/15/2010 10:47 AMManaging Holiday Expectationshttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/managing-holiday-expectations/index.aspxIt’s important to have several conversations with your fiancé regarding the management of specific expectations relating to the holiday season.12/14/2010 11:38 AMYour Family or Mine?: Negotiating Family Holiday Expectationshttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/your-family-or-mine-negotiating-family-holiday-expectations/index.aspxThere are many ways to handle the holidays and extended family members. No one way is right for every couple. But you must agree as a couple how you will manage your time.12/17/2010 10:41 AMNewly Engaged? Get Ready for an Emotional Roller Coaster Ride ...http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/newly-engaged-get-ready-for-an-emotional-roller-coaster-ride/index.aspxYou may have been imagining the perfect wedding day since you were young, but what you probably aren’t prepared for is the onslaught of emotions along the way.12/14/2010 12:14 PM5 Fresh Date Ideas for Valentine’s Day http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/5-fresh-date-ideas-for-valentines-day/index.aspxCreative ideas for the perfect Valentine’s Day date.2/9/2012 4:50 PMRethinking Romance with Your Fiance http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/rethinking-romance-with-your-fiance-/index.aspxIs romance dead? Here are some ways to inject romance into your relationship with your fiance.12/14/2010 2:32 PMTop 10 Most Romantic Destinationshttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/top-10-most-romantic-destinations/index.aspxTop 10 Most Romantic Destinations12/20/2010 1:03 PMEngaging in Emotional Intimacy – Before and After You Walk Down the Aislehttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/engaging-in-emotional-intimacy-before-and-after-you-walk-down-the-aisle/index.aspxResearch has shown that a strong emotional connection is critical to a successful relationship. Here are some conversations key to building and maintaining emotional intimacy with your partner.1/12/2012 2:06 PMMy substance abuse is starting to affect our relationship. What do I do?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/my-substance-abuse-is-starting-to-affect-our-relationship-what-do-i-do/index.aspxIn this video, Dr. Scott Haltzman provides insight on how to deal with a substance abuse issue in a relationship.12/17/2010 3:16 PMHow do I tell my partner I want to work on improving our relationship?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/how-do-i-tell-my-partner-i-want-to-work-on-improving-our-relationship/index.aspxIn this video, relationship expert Nisa Muhammad responds to the question, "How do I tell my partner I want to work on improving our relationship?".12/17/2010 2:10 PMHow do I tell my partner I want to work on repairing our relationship?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/how-do-i-tell-my-partner-i-want-to-work-on-repairing-our-relationship/index.aspxHow do I tell my partner I want to work on repairing our relationship?12/17/2010 2:11 PMWhat is a healthy marriage?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/what-is-a-healthy-marrige/index.aspxIn this video, Dr. Sue Johnson addresses what constitutes a healthy marriage.12/17/2010 4:00 PMHow can we avoid infidelity in our relationship?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/how-can-we-avoid-infidelity-in-our-relationship/index.aspxIn this video, Dr. Barry McCarthy talks about how to avoid temptations within our relationships.12/7/2010 11:23 AMIs monogamy possible?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/is-monogamy-possible/index.aspxIn this video, Dr. Barry McCarthy talks about if monogamy is possible or not.12/17/2010 3:01 PMHow can we make our marriage stronger?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/how-can-we-make-our-marriage-stronger/index.aspxIn this video, Dr. Rozario Slack explores ways to strengthen your marriage.12/17/2010 1:52 PMSpring Fever: Rising Temperatures, Rising Temptationhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/spring-fever-rising-temperatures-rising-temptation/index.aspxDo you find yourself a little bored with your relationship this spring? If you find yourself tempted by an affair, here are some questions to ask yourself first.4/6/2011 12:52 PMWhere Have All the Butterflies Gone?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/where-have-all-the-butterflies-gone/index.aspxWhen we first fall in love, we are filled with giddy excitement. Over time, this feeling can fade, leaving many people feeling empty.12/8/2010 8:38 AMPlan for the Wedding, Prepare for Your Futurehttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/plan-for-the-wedding-prepare-for-your-future/index.aspxWorking together as a team and being respectful of your partner’s needs will help you effectively deal with any challenges that come your way in the wedding planning process – and throughout your marriage! 4/18/2011 3:29 PMCutting the Cord: Breaking Unhealthy Dependencies That Impact Your Partnerhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/cutting-the-cord-breaking-unhealthy-dependencies-that-impact-your-partner/index.aspxWe are all bound to our parents in complex ways that can be beautiful, confounding, and infuriating. But the ties that bind us to our parents can be hard on those we marry.12/8/2010 10:06 AMLove through the Ageshttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/love-through-the-ages/index.aspxLearn how today’s couples are building relationships that stand the test of time.12/10/2010 9:47 AMLove through the Ageshttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/love-through-the-ages/index.aspxJust as the art of communicating has changed over time, so too have the tools for keeping relationships happy and healthy. Learn how today’s couples are building strong relationships that will stand the test of time.3/30/2011 10:44 AMTop 10 Myths About Marriagehttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/top-10-myths-about-marriage/index.aspxThe way marriages are portrayed through media and popular culture can cloud our expectations of marriage and set the stage for disappointment during marriage. Do your own reality check by reading this top 10 list of myths.12/16/2010 10:11 AMTop 10 Challenges Couples Face in Forming and Sustaining Healthy Relationships and Marriageshttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/top-ten-challenges-couples-face-in-forming-and-sustaining-healthy-relationships-and-marriages/index.aspxHere are 10 obstacles couples encounter in developing and maintaining healthy long-term relationships.12/16/2010 10:08 AMYour Dream Wedding … On a Realistic Budgethttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/your-dream-wedding-on-a-realistic-budget/index.aspxEveryone is on a budget these days, including brides-to-be. So how do you ensure the wedding of your dreams, without breaking your budget?9/29/2011 11:20 AMInspiring Couples Share Words to Live—and Love—Byhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/inspiring-couples-share-words-to-liveand-loveby/index.aspxWe all aspire to have a strong, healthy and inspiring marriage. Read quotes from real couples who have lived such marriages ... for years. 9/27/2011 4:58 PMWhy Forgiveness is Good … for Youhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/why-forgiveness-is-good-for-you/index.aspxToo often, we see forgiveness solely as an (undeserved) kindness we extend to an oppressor. But forgiveness is also a gift we give ourselves—a gift that provides considerable physical and psychological benefits to the giver.12/20/2010 11:32 AMManaging Expectations, Minimizing Disappointmenthttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/managing-expectations-minimizing-disappointment/index.aspxLearn how to manage your expectations and maximize the positive in your relationship.12/8/2010 10:56 AMLosing Your Emotional Baggagehttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/losing-your-emotional-baggage/index.aspxEmotional baggage can be difficult to leave behind. Here are tips to help you leave the past behind.7/11/2011 1:33 PMWhat are some things we should talk about before we get married?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/what-are-some-things-we-should-talk-about-before-we-get-married/index.aspxIn this video, relationship expert Morgan Van Epp outlines what things you should definitely talk about before you get married.12/17/2010 3:46 PMLearn to Forgive … Before You Marryhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/learn-to-forgive-before-you-marry/index.aspxForgiveness is a vital—if learned—skill for surviving any relationship, especially marriage. Learn to forgive before you marry.9/28/2011 10:59 AMShould we go to premarital preparation?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/should-we-go-to-premarital-preparation/index.aspxIn this video, relationship expert Dr. Bill Doherty talks about preparing for marriage.12/17/2010 3:20 PMAre there bad reasons for people to get married?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/are-there-bad-reasons-for-people-to-get-married/index.aspxIn this video, relationship expert Kelly Simpson talks about if there are any bad reasons for getting married.12/7/2010 9:00 AMDo religious people have better marriages?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/do-religious-people-have-better-marriages/index.aspxRelationship expert Dr. Tim Gardner talks about if religious people have better marriages or not.12/7/2010 9:54 AMHow do we make our long-distance relationship work?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/how-do-we-make-our-long-distance-relationship-work/index.aspxIn this video, relationship expert Howard Markman, Ph.D. talks about how to make long-distance relationships work.12/17/2010 2:17 PMIsn't love enough to keep my mariage alive?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/isnt-love-enough-to-keep-my-mariage-alive/index.aspxIn this video, Dr. Van Epp explores whether love is enough to keep a marriage alive.12/17/2010 3:03 PMWhat makes marriages last? Part 1http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/what-makes-marriages-last/index.aspxRelationship experts discuss what factors help a marriage go the distance.12/21/2010 1:42 PMWhat does a successful marriage look like? Part 1http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/what-does-a-successful-marriage-look-like/index.aspxRelationship experts Michael H. Popkin, Ph.D. identifies the attributes of a healthy and successful marriage.12/21/2010 2:20 PMDoes preparing for marriage help lower the likelihood of divorce?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/does-preparing-for-marriage-help-lower-the-likelihood-of-divorce/index.aspxRelationship expert Dr. Bill Doherty talks about preparing for marriage and how it can help lower the likelihood of divorce.12/7/2010 9:37 AMHow can we, as a couple, prepare for marriage? Part 1http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/how-can-we-as-a-couple-prepare-for-marriage/index.aspxRelationship expert Dr. Rozario Slack talks about how you can prepare for marriage as a couple.12/21/2010 12:02 PMThe Soul Mate Mythhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/the-soul-mate-myth/index.aspxOver 88% of young adults believe they have a soul mate somewhere waiting for them. Clearly, the idea of a soul mate is pervasive one … but is it real? 12/9/2010 9:43 AM10 Simple Ways to Make a Marriage Lasthttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/10-simple-ways-to-make-a-marriage-last/index.aspxThe fundamental rules for human interaction—kindness, fairness and respect—are taught to us as children. Unfortunately, many of these lessons are forgotten by the time we reach adulthood. 9/27/2011 4:54 PMManaging a Long Distance Relationship with Your Fiance http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/managing-a-long-distance-relationship-with-your-fiance-/index.aspxMaintaining an intimate bond with your fiance while many miles separate you can be a challenge. Here's how to make it work.12/14/2010 11:33 AMA Young Couple’s Guide to Growing Old Togetherhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/a-young-couples-guide-to-growing-old-together/index.aspxA guide to building a love that lasts.12/9/2010 3:59 PMBridging Emotional Distancehttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/bridging-emotional-distance/index.aspxThe emotional connection between a couple acts as a bridge connecting two lives. When this connection is severed, your partner may seem unreachable.12/9/2010 3:42 PMThe First Year of Marriagehttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/the-first-year-of-marriage/index.aspxGet your marriage off to a great start! Tips for building a strong marriage ... from the beginning.12/15/2010 3:00 PMShould You Take Your Fiance’s Last Name?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/should-you-take-your-fiances-last-name/index.aspxThe vast majority of women marrying today take their husband’s last name. Still, for many women, the decision to do so is complicated, even painful one.12/15/2010 9:57 AMThe ‘Disengaged’ Fiance: Getting Your Fiance Involved in the Wedding http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/the-disengaged-fiance-getting-your-fiance-involved-in-the-wedding-/index.aspxIt’s a common scenario: You can’t wait for your wedding day. Your fiance can’t wait for it to be over.12/15/2010 10:40 AMThe Art of Compromisehttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/the-art-of-compromise/index.aspxBeing uncompromising on ethical matters makes you a strong person. Being uncompromising in an intimate relationship, however, is often less noble.10/13/2011 2:45 PMIs Divorce ‘Contagious’?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/is-divorce-contagious/index.aspxDivorce can be contagious in social networks, according to a recent study. But what does that really mean for the future of your relationship?2/15/2011 11:35 AMActor Hill Harper Starts ‘The Conversation’ http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/hill-harper-the-conversation/index.aspxIn this video, award-winning actor and best-selling author Hill Harper (CSI: NY) tackles misconceptions about marriage, men and family … and how to strengthen relationships between black men and women. 4/16/2012 9:07 AMThe Distracted Partner: Competing with Technology for His/Her Attentionhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/the-distracted-partner-competing-with-technology-for-hisher-attention/index.aspxWe are tantalized by technology. What’s worse, so are our partners. But when our significant other falls for this same seduction, we often fail to see the charm. 1/19/2011 1:15 PMWhy Premarital Education/Counseling Mattershttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/why-premarital-educationcounseling-matters/index.aspxDivorce rates hover around 50%. But marriage and relationship education (MRE) or premarital counseling can help protect your marriage.12/17/2010 10:31 AMHow can a mentor couple help us strengthen our relationship? Part 2http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/mentor-couple-help/index.aspxDr. Ed Gray discusses the benefits of having a mentor couple to help you in your relationship.12/21/2010 11:05 AMHow can we, as a couple, prepare for marriage? Part 2http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/videos/prepare-for-marriage/index.aspxRelationship experts David Carder talks about how you can prepare for marriage as a couple.12/21/2010 12:04 PMEconomic Benefits of Marriagehttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/economic-benefits-of-marriage/index.aspxCould staying together “for richer or for poorer” actually increase your odds of landing in the “for richer” category?12/10/2010 8:41 AMCreative Alternatives to a Big Weddinghttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/creative-alternatives-to-a-big-wedding/index.aspxA wedding doesn't have to be big or expensive to be spectacular.12/9/2010 4:15 PMIs a Lengthy Engagement Really Necessary?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/is-a-lengthy-engagement-really-necessary/index.aspxIn a rush to get to the altar? Don't be in too much of a hurry...10/27/2011 5:11 PMDiscuss Finances Before Marriagehttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/discuss-finances-before-marriage/index.aspxBefore you begin a new life together, make sure you are on the same page financially.12/23/2010 10:46 AM10 Myths About Engagementhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/10-myths-about-engagement/index.aspxDon't buy into these common misconceptions about getting married.10/3/2011 4:19 PMStaying Best Friends After Marriagehttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/staying-best-friends-after-marriage/index.aspxTips to help you and your spouse continue to grow your friendship after getting married.2/24/2012 3:51 PMMeet the Family: Tips for Leaving a Good Impressionhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/meet-the-family-tips-for-leaving-a-good-impression/index.aspxTips for making meeting your significant other's family a positive and memorable experience.2/9/2011 2:59 PMUnderstanding the Emotional Needs of Your Female Partnerhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/understanding-the-emotional-needs-of-your-female-partner/index.aspxLearning what your female partner values most is essential to making the relationship work. 2/17/2011 3:39 PMBeating Relationship Boredomhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/beating-relationship-boredom/index.aspxTips to help you and your significant other beat the boredom that sometimes sets in with relationships.3/22/2011 1:44 PMDealing with Cultural Differences in a Relationship http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/dealing-with-cultural-differences-in-a-relationship-/index.aspxDifferences in culture can put a strain on a relationship; learn how to ensure it does not cause the end of the relationship.3/10/2011 9:22 AMGuarding your heart? It’s really a matter of trusthttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/guarding-your-heart-its-really-a-matter-of-trust/index.aspxIt can be difficult to trust someone in a new relationship after being hurt but the risk can be worth it.3/22/2011 1:42 PMCan’t We All Just Get Along: Keeping the Peace on Your Wedding Dayhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/cant-we-all-just-get-along-keeping-the-peace-on-your-wedding-day/index.aspxEven though the wedding day should be one of the happiest day, it can be incredibly stressful. Here are some tips to relieve some of this stress.3/29/2011 8:38 AMPDA: How Much is Too Much?http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/pda-how-much-is-too-much/index.aspxPublic displays of affection can be a good way to let your significant other feel loved, but when is it too much?1/27/2012 2:19 PMRelationship Mind Gameshttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/relationship-mind-games/index.aspxPlaying mind games with your significant can be a losing strategy for your relationship.4/27/2011 12:05 PMMaking a Home Togetherhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/making-a-home-together/index.aspxTips for how to make your new house a home.6/2/2011 4:29 PMSelfishness: The Real Relationship Killerhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/selfishness-the-real-relationship-killer/index.aspxIs it necessary to sacrifice your significant other’s needs in order to attain your own? Learn the difference between healthy self-interest and selfishness.9/29/2011 10:07 AM10 Creative Ways to Celebrate Your Anniversaryhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/10-creative-ways-to-celebrate-your-anniversary/index.aspxThere’s no shame in celebrating your anniversary with the usual dinner and a movie. But if you’re looking to do something different this year, here are some creative ways to honor the occasion.5/10/2011 1:40 PMWedding Rings: To Wear or Not to Wearhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/wedding-rings-to-wear-or-not-to-wear/index.aspxFor many, a wedding band is a beautiful and important symbol of a couple’s commitment. For others, it seems unnecessary, uncomfortable and even heavy-handed.5/23/2011 4:04 PMA Guy’s Guide to the Perfect Wedding Proposalhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/a-guys-guide-to-the-perfect-wedding-proposal/index.aspxTips for pulling off the perfect proposal.5/16/2011 5:24 PMAm I Really Ready for This? Pre-Wedding Jittershttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/am-i-really-ready-for-this-pre-wedding-jitters/index.aspxMany people experience uncertainty about making the commitment to a life-long marriage. Once you are officially engaged, it may seem even more overwhelming.6/2/2011 10:45 AMPlanning Your Destination Weddinghttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/planning-your-destination-wedding/index.aspxEngaged couples used to have only two options: a wedding or an elopement. Destination weddings provide a welcome third alternative, combining the best aspects of each.6/2/2011 5:28 PMDeciding Where to Honeymoonhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/deciding-where-to-honeymoon/index.aspxThe honeymoon is a very important part of a newly married couples experience, deciding on the location can be difficult. 6/28/2011 3:12 PMHow Emotional Intelligence Affects Your Relationshipshttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/how-emotional-intelligence-affects-your-relationships/index.aspxIf you are looking to improve your relationship, assessing your emotional intelligence could help.7/12/2011 8:24 PMSaying You're Sorryhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/saying-youre-sorry/index.aspxSaying you're sorry can be difficult at times, TwoOfUs.org lets you know how to make it easier.10/27/2011 5:25 PMMust the Truth Hurt? Honesty and Relationshipshttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/must-the-truth-hurt-honesty-and-relationships/index.aspxEveryone says the truth hurts but does it really have to? 7/20/2011 9:01 AMTo Elope or Not to Elopehttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/to-elope-or-not-to-elope/index.aspxIs an elopement the right choice for you and your fiance?2/15/2012 3:14 PMRomancing Your Female Partnerhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/romancing-your-female-partner/index.aspxFind out what your female partner really wants when it comes to romance.8/4/2011 9:43 AMThe Affection Connectionhttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/the-affection-connection/index.aspxTwoOfUs.org explores a new study which tackles the stereotype "Men want sex. Women just want to cuddle."8/12/2011 10:56 AMRelationship Dealbreakershttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/relationship-dealbreakers/index.aspxWeeding out less desirable dating candidates often involves a wish list. But for some people, that list goes on and on. Here are the real relationship dealbreakers….8/15/2011 9:15 PMHow to Confront Your Partner’s Poor Spending Habitshttp://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/how-to-confront-your-partners-poor-spending-habits/index.aspxConfronting your partners spending and financial habits can be difficult, TwoOfUs.org will help couples explore this issue.8/17/2011 9:55 AMToo young to get married? See what the experts say….http://www.twoofus.org/educational-content/articles/too-young-to-get-married-see-what-the-experts-say/index.aspxExactly what age is the right age to get married? There's not a hard-and-fast rule, but there are some interesting statistics...8/31/2011 10:25 AM