I can live for two months on a good compliment. ~ Mark Twain

Words are, indeed, powerful. Why are compliments, or affirmations, so important and how can they benefit your relationship?  In Gary Chapman's (1995) best-selling book, The Five Love Languages, he explains that people express and receive love in different ways. Dr. Chapman identifies these as the five languages of love: quality time, words of affirmation, gifts, acts of service and physical touch. For people who have "words of affirmation" as their primary love language, verbal compliments and appreciation are particularly meaningful. Unfortunately, some partners forget or don’t realize the significance of simple expressions of praise, kindness, and understanding that help nurture and sustain our relationships and help those we love feel loved.

1. “I love you.”
2. "I really admire you for… (something specific).”
3. “You know, you might be right.” 
4. “What do you need from me," or "What can  I do for you right now?”
5. “Thank you; I appreciate you.”
6. “I'm sorry; forgive me.”
7. “You are the most beautiful woman/handsome man in the world.”
8. “You are my best friend.”
9. “Have I told you recently how much I love the way you…(be specific).”
10. “You rock my world.”